The last three weeks have been a bit too busy for my taste, so i waas REALLY looking forward to friday, because i was finally able to go out again. Whenever i have no time to go out for whatever reason it always becomes CRYSTAL CLEAR to me that there is no subsitute to going out doing cold approach. ITS THE BEST, FUNNIEST AND COOLEST THING EVER. NO SUBSTITUTE FOR THAT SHIT, no matter how much i like other things..like reading good books or doing interesting work, or going to the gym or even having sex with one of my gfs. All these things simply pale in comparison with going out talking to girls. Weiterlesen
– entitlement is everything in game, girls are SUPER INDECISIVE and look for the guy for directions. If your reality is : i am the best, noone comes even close thats what she will SEE in your eyes and thats what she will believe. If you 100% believe that you are entitled to a certain girl gaming her is super easy and effortless Weiterlesen
Recently it occured to me that everything i wrote on this blog focussed on the „getting the girl“ part and none focussed on the „keeping the girl“ part of game. The reason for that is that i always viewed keeping girls as a by-product of getting girls. Weiterlesen
This report will be a cliff notes report. Enjoy!
– went out with my flat mate to watch a soccer game
– i see the first hottie in the first club and jump of my seat and open her with „juliaa????“, she smiles and says thats not her name. I ask „hmm, then tell me your name“ but she smiles and walks off Weiterlesen
This was one of the more difficult girls i had in the last year or so (some voice in my head kept telling me the whole time „you need to fuck THIS ONE“ and i always listen to the voices in my head!) Weiterlesen
So i went out to this bar/party yesterday, 15 euros, all-you-can-drink.
Worked with one of my friends till 10, then we both went there directly. On the way to the bus stop i notice a girl waiting for the bus as well. My friend orders some fast food and i stand next to the girl and check her out: long dark hair, cute face, skirt, big boobs but skinny and she’s listening to music with earphones. Weiterlesen
1. talking to many people is attractive in itself. when you talk to many girls, even if it doesn’t work out well the mere fact that you talk to girls makes you LOOK more attractive (learned that from ijjjji, rsd). Thats because your face will show emotions, etc. when you talk to others while it looks boring when you just stand there or talk boring small talk with a guy. Its not soo much social proof but simply that your facial expressions change and you look more attractive
high-energy place = a club
I always open as intense as possible, THEN calibrate (like julien says CALIBRATE AFTER THE FACT, NOT BEFORE). Depending on the girls reaction one of three possible scenarios can happen
One of the main changes in the pick up scene from the old days (2002-2005) to what gets taught today was the switch from concrete techniques to principles. You don’t learn routines anymore but you try to figure out the principle behind why for some people routines work and for others not. Not concrete steps for push pull but instead, again, the PRINCIPLE behind why some guys can make this work and some can’t. Once you understand the principle, you can create your own individual stuff. Here’s a synopsis of principles (mainly from RSD btw):
1. Volume is KING
Most issues are surface level issues (when should i call her?, should i pay?, should i compliment her?). If you work VOLUME and open, fuck and date lots of women questions like this become irrelevant. Weiterlesen